One step towards worlds life
brand new and exciting type
but i stopped and turned around
to see my place,my own ground
the place where i've spent my golden days
preferred road side vendor than cafe's
acting strange and driving crazy
living life was so damn easy
never caring what ever others say
laziness,recklessness always outplays
studies,lectures & shouting teachers
sleeping in the class,proudly back-benchers
making friends,in a split of second
but sticking with them till worlds end
living on the edge,challenges & dares consequences,
who the hell cares
but reality struck, and hits hard
soon this world will be torn apart
days are over,time to say goodbye
memories flashing,in front of wet eyes
my heart's defying,
but this the end.....................end of my college days.....
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Sunday, February 8, 2009
MATURITY
Mom, you never ever give me what I ask for!"
"It is only 100 rupees. Are we so poor that we cannot afford it?"
"How could he said that,he was my best frend"
"Don't crib about my cell phone bills, XYZ runs into thousands."
And so on. demands never end. Nor do complaints.
This exhibition of self-centredness and self-importance is characteristic of ALL OF US. Our expectations, demands and complaints run into volumes. Yet, they are not bad. This is part of our maturation process.
Wenever i think of the word MATURITY.....i get confused.Wat should be the right time to get mature.This question haunts me always.And i hav never came to any solutions till date.
Four years in an engineering college do teaches us alot.But do they teach how to become mature.Does maturity is same as being serious,does it mean to behave nicely wid others,does it mean to talk sensibly or does it mean to portray ourselves a gentleman.Every human has a child inside him,so does it mean we never had became mature and till date we were just puttering.
What i think is removing selfcentredness,self importance and emotional insecurity from our mind is maturity.I make emotional security the bottom line for any progress. No growth can take place in a vacuum.By the word emotional security,i mean we should be emotionally strong enough to face bad times and in those bad times too,we should think about others to be happy. There is always be a preoccupation with the self and we become unmindful of others. This hampers our personal growth and interpersonal relationships.In my experience, most of the problems whether it is personal or interpersonal, emotional or cognitive, decisions have to be made. As It is said... decisions are processed logically, but made emotionally.If u cant be emotional,u cant be mature.To be content and not bursting out is maturity.
I have seen many guys who always say " i have faced alot,i am backstabbed by someone,i have seen many bad times in my life"...But bursting it out,,,will it bring the good times again.It shows immaturity.It shows that u r still not enough mature to deal wid it.And thus u r speaking out.
But the problem is "will it be easy for us to be content with d life that offered us"... yes,its very difficult to be satisfied.It is very difficult to portray ourselves to be mature becoz at the core of ur heart,u know u r not pure.There wer days wen i used to say " i can't even see cloud 9 wen i look down" But i realized later that it was fog which was making me blind to see the cloud.
Maintaining the balance is wat required. But practicing this balance is difficult.Then wat should v do?? The question never ends..the answers never end...
"It is only 100 rupees. Are we so poor that we cannot afford it?"
"How could he said that,he was my best frend"
"Don't crib about my cell phone bills, XYZ runs into thousands."
And so on. demands never end. Nor do complaints.
This exhibition of self-centredness and self-importance is characteristic of ALL OF US. Our expectations, demands and complaints run into volumes. Yet, they are not bad. This is part of our maturation process.
Wenever i think of the word MATURITY.....i get confused.Wat should be the right time to get mature.This question haunts me always.And i hav never came to any solutions till date.
Four years in an engineering college do teaches us alot.But do they teach how to become mature.Does maturity is same as being serious,does it mean to behave nicely wid others,does it mean to talk sensibly or does it mean to portray ourselves a gentleman.Every human has a child inside him,so does it mean we never had became mature and till date we were just puttering.
What i think is removing selfcentredness,self importance and emotional insecurity from our mind is maturity.I make emotional security the bottom line for any progress. No growth can take place in a vacuum.By the word emotional security,i mean we should be emotionally strong enough to face bad times and in those bad times too,we should think about others to be happy. There is always be a preoccupation with the self and we become unmindful of others. This hampers our personal growth and interpersonal relationships.In my experience, most of the problems whether it is personal or interpersonal, emotional or cognitive, decisions have to be made. As It is said... decisions are processed logically, but made emotionally.If u cant be emotional,u cant be mature.To be content and not bursting out is maturity.
I have seen many guys who always say " i have faced alot,i am backstabbed by someone,i have seen many bad times in my life"...But bursting it out,,,will it bring the good times again.It shows immaturity.It shows that u r still not enough mature to deal wid it.And thus u r speaking out.
But the problem is "will it be easy for us to be content with d life that offered us"... yes,its very difficult to be satisfied.It is very difficult to portray ourselves to be mature becoz at the core of ur heart,u know u r not pure.There wer days wen i used to say " i can't even see cloud 9 wen i look down" But i realized later that it was fog which was making me blind to see the cloud.
Maintaining the balance is wat required. But practicing this balance is difficult.Then wat should v do?? The question never ends..the answers never end...
Thursday, February 5, 2009
CHANGES
HI...
I am alone in my room thinking about the change.Changes which are always seem dynamic but not in actual.Changes demand risks.U need to take risks if u want changes.Year 2003,when i want to achieve heights in badminton.I want to be a player but life was on the other side of the net.And it defeated me with 21-0...At that time i was afraid of change.The question is at present whether i am happy or not with the life that offered me.And the answer for the same is DONT KNOW.. Today my life is dynamic.Lots of things are happening simultaneously,some are controllable,some are not.
It was 2 august 2008,saturday,SIEMENS POWER was at my college for the campus placement and It was the last date for taking CAT -2008 application form.I reached college in car with one of my friend parvinder nogi at 9:00 am.I gave the written test and told parvinder " Lets go to take CAT application form from axis bank".I reached to parking,put my hand into the pocket to take out keys,but hand comes out of it emptied.Keys were lost.I went to the bank with my another friend,took the form,reached back to the college,wear formals,and heared - KESHER UR INTERVIEW CALL.And i entered the room where four deadly creatures were seated ready to screw me.
I asked god "should all these interesting(for others to listen) things need to occur.Would have these things not happend,wouldn't i get placed.Lots of such dynamic things had happend before and still continues.These things had always triggered off the thought processes in my mind.What is the use of all these bloody things to happen.Why do change occurs.Why doesnt life becomes monotonous? These umpteen disturbances surfaced me many times and i ll share every bit of it...And thus the second thing that life taught me - CHANGE IS THE MOST STATIC THING IN LIFE .......
I am alone in my room thinking about the change.Changes which are always seem dynamic but not in actual.Changes demand risks.U need to take risks if u want changes.Year 2003,when i want to achieve heights in badminton.I want to be a player but life was on the other side of the net.And it defeated me with 21-0...At that time i was afraid of change.The question is at present whether i am happy or not with the life that offered me.And the answer for the same is DONT KNOW.. Today my life is dynamic.Lots of things are happening simultaneously,some are controllable,some are not.
It was 2 august 2008,saturday,SIEMENS POWER was at my college for the campus placement and It was the last date for taking CAT -2008 application form.I reached college in car with one of my friend parvinder nogi at 9:00 am.I gave the written test and told parvinder " Lets go to take CAT application form from axis bank".I reached to parking,put my hand into the pocket to take out keys,but hand comes out of it emptied.Keys were lost.I went to the bank with my another friend,took the form,reached back to the college,wear formals,and heared - KESHER UR INTERVIEW CALL.And i entered the room where four deadly creatures were seated ready to screw me.
I asked god "should all these interesting(for others to listen) things need to occur.Would have these things not happend,wouldn't i get placed.Lots of such dynamic things had happend before and still continues.These things had always triggered off the thought processes in my mind.What is the use of all these bloody things to happen.Why do change occurs.Why doesnt life becomes monotonous? These umpteen disturbances surfaced me many times and i ll share every bit of it...And thus the second thing that life taught me - CHANGE IS THE MOST STATIC THING IN LIFE .......
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
life demands u
HI everyone....
When life teaches u lots of lessons then u want it to share those lessons with everyone.It relaxes u nd also gives strength to ur inner soul.And i m doing the same.Everyone is gifted but only some open packages.And those who open find their way to success.Success is a relative term.For some it may lies in education,for some it lies in positions,for some its power and for some it has no meaning.But the truth of success is happiness. There are lots of people searching for happiness.They dont have any idea wer they find it.They keep on strugling with his life to achieve success,to achieve happiness.But the thing is wen u help someone who is struggling and if he or she come out of it,happiness lies there.life demands various things from us.It makes u dance to its tunes untill u know how to live ur life without life.It may sounds absurd.But ya its true.Generally people makes their owns their life,their parents,their relatives,their wives,their husbands, and they find mammoth pain in their minds and soul wen they realize life(what they intepreted) has gone.Now u r alone,in darkness.Complete lonliness is eating u. A light in ur life is happiness and it wat success actually means.Life has many dimensions,many arrows,and many directions,It depends on ur inner thoughts which arrow u follow.U need to be delightful,wen u r happy.U should know the importance of that happiness.And it will automatically makes u important.....This is my first blog.The first thing that life taught me.Hope u all liked it... My coming blogs will make u laugh,cry and think..........................................
When life teaches u lots of lessons then u want it to share those lessons with everyone.It relaxes u nd also gives strength to ur inner soul.And i m doing the same.Everyone is gifted but only some open packages.And those who open find their way to success.Success is a relative term.For some it may lies in education,for some it lies in positions,for some its power and for some it has no meaning.But the truth of success is happiness. There are lots of people searching for happiness.They dont have any idea wer they find it.They keep on strugling with his life to achieve success,to achieve happiness.But the thing is wen u help someone who is struggling and if he or she come out of it,happiness lies there.life demands various things from us.It makes u dance to its tunes untill u know how to live ur life without life.It may sounds absurd.But ya its true.Generally people makes their owns their life,their parents,their relatives,their wives,their husbands, and they find mammoth pain in their minds and soul wen they realize life(what they intepreted) has gone.Now u r alone,in darkness.Complete lonliness is eating u. A light in ur life is happiness and it wat success actually means.Life has many dimensions,many arrows,and many directions,It depends on ur inner thoughts which arrow u follow.U need to be delightful,wen u r happy.U should know the importance of that happiness.And it will automatically makes u important.....This is my first blog.The first thing that life taught me.Hope u all liked it... My coming blogs will make u laugh,cry and think..........................................
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